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Tag: regrets

grief journey
April 6, 2019

Life Takes Its Toll

It’s really hard to watch your husband’s work disappear day by day. The beautiful things he built around the house and in the yard get older and more worn out. The wonderful websites he designed get taken down, because the clients move on or go out of business – or because I was forced to cut the client list in … Read the blog

grief grieving guilt
November 3, 2018

Telling Guilt to Take a Hike

After more than a year of coming to terms with Rick’s death, today I came to realize that grieving is just a long-running battle with the words I tell myself in my head. There’s a voice in a continuously running monologue that tells me things that I need to either heed or ignore, words to believe or recognize as a … Read the blog

grief and new normal
October 15, 2018

My New Life

I hate that I’m getting used to it.

I hate that I’m used to being single now, that I have new routines, that I’m moving on. I’ve achieved my new normal.

I hate that I’m more “myself” again. I hate that I’m coping better, that I have new goals, fresh ideas for my future.

I hate that it’s getting easier … Read the blog

grief and memories
August 12, 2018

The Futility of the Physical – new blog on Hope for Widows site

Beginning next month, the old company logo at work is being replaced and removed from all our products. Rick created that logo 20 years ago.

I thought, there goes another piece of Rick, his legacy, his mark on the world. And I swallowed the temptation to cry as business continued to be discussed around me.

And the more I contemplate … Read the blog

June 25, 2018

The Last Spray Bottle

I was tidying up the kitchen yesterday, and I reached for the spray bottle of cleaner. I noticed it’s almost empty and reminded myself that I need to add it to my shopping list. Then my mind started its typical chain of thoughts… Rick bought this bottle. He bought a couple of bottles at the same time and this is … Read the blog

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Rick and Gerry – 2016

Rick and Jonas

https://youtu.be/aveVSwyBjaY

Rick and Danielle

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gvgjw4nXEFY

Rick singing Elvis

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